
Myths and Truths about Co-sleeping with Mayim Bialik
Mayim Bialik is an American actress, neuroscientist, and author who is best known for her role as Dr. Amy Farrah Fowler on the hit television show The Big Bang Theory. She is also a passionate advocate for co-sleeping, which is the practice of sleeping in the same bed as one’s child. In this article, we will explore some of the myths and truths about co-sleeping with Mayim Bialik.
What is Co-sleeping?
Co-sleeping is a parenting practice in which parents and their children sleep in the same bed or in close proximity to one another. This practice is also known as “family bed” or “bed-sharing”. It is a popular parenting choice among many cultures around the world, and is becoming increasingly popular in the United States.
Myths about Co-sleeping
There are many myths about co-sleeping that have been perpetuated by those who are opposed to the practice. Here are some of the most common myths about co-sleeping:
Myth 1: Co-sleeping is dangerous.
This is one of the most common myths about co-sleeping. However, research has shown that co-sleeping is not inherently dangerous. In fact, when done safely, co-sleeping can be beneficial for both parents and children.
Myth 2: Co-sleeping will make your child dependent.
This is another common myth about co-sleeping. However, research has shown that co-sleeping does not make children more dependent on their parents. In fact, co-sleeping can help children develop a secure attachment to their parents, which can lead to increased independence.
Myth 3: Co-sleeping will disrupt your child’s sleep.
This is another myth about co-sleeping. However, research has shown that co-sleeping can actually help children sleep better. Studies have found that children who co-sleep with their parents tend to have fewer sleep disturbances and better sleep quality.
Truths about Co-sleeping
Now that we have explored some of the myths about co-sleeping, let’s take a look at some of the truths about co-sleeping. Here are some of the truths about co-sleeping:
Truth 1: Co-sleeping can be beneficial for both parents and children.
Research has shown that co-sleeping can be beneficial for both parents and children. Co-sleeping can help parents and children bond, and can also help children feel secure and safe.
Truth 2: Co-sleeping can help children sleep better.
As mentioned above, research has shown that co-sleeping can help children sleep better. Studies have found that children who co-sleep with their parents tend to have fewer sleep disturbances and better sleep quality.
Truth 3: Co-sleeping can help reduce stress.
Research has also shown that co-sleeping can help reduce stress. Studies have found that co-sleeping can help reduce stress levels in both parents and children, which can lead to improved overall health and wellbeing.
FAQs
Is co-sleeping safe?
When done safely, co-sleeping can be beneficial for both parents and children. It is important to follow safety guidelines when co-sleeping, such as making sure the bed is free of pillows, blankets, and other items that could pose a suffocation risk.
What are the benefits of co-sleeping?
The benefits of co-sleeping include increased bonding between parents and children, improved sleep quality for children, and reduced stress levels for both parents and children.
Is co-sleeping the same as bed-sharing?
Yes, co-sleeping and bed-sharing are the same thing. Co-sleeping is the practice of sleeping in the same bed or in close proximity to one another, while bed-sharing is the practice of sleeping in the same bed.
"That's true for the thousands of families that [co-sleep]"… you mean the BILLIONS of families that do!!
Has a PhD in one area of science, act like an expert in all areas……..stick to bad acting blossom
But if you have to go to work, you cant wait till 3🙆 sleep deprivation will definitely get to you
Thank you for this!
Good lord, the closet psychologists policing co-sleeping. Humans co-slept for a billions years.
My friend killed her baby on accident by cosleeping.
I lost my daughter to a co sleeping accident. I always thought it would never happen to us . Please be careful
We began co-sleeping at birth. We tried the bassinet in hospital, we tried the bassinet by our bed, we bought a $400 crib, we tried naps in her beds, we tried sleeping in her room…. NOTHING WORKED! Our LO is almost 3 years old and we ultimately had to create a safe sleep zone that included her co-sleeping with me. It works, I am so thankful for a health little girl, we are super bonded! I honestly do not look forward to the day she decides to sleep in her room. She is everything to me!
Thank you for this important message for me to hear
Amy??? Lol
Mayim thinks like child and should be given the name: GIRL
Simple, concise, perfect! Cheers 🙂
If I had a baby, it would totally sleep with me. I watched my parents do it with my little brothers and I saw nothing wrong with it. I don't know why people see as unsafe.
Is this the lady from big bang?
Co sleeping is good for everyone. Everyone gets sleep and cuddles.
"Our son is able to put himself to sleep, and he sleeps through the night"… he's 14.
I love this – thank you!
The thing is, children already take away lots of the couple's alone time and healthy intimacy and sex. If you co-sleep, you take away all of that. I can't get to believe that damaging your marriage for the sake of the kids could be something good.
Totally agree
Her 3 year old still sleeps in the same bed? How does the couple ever have sex? That sounds like a divorce waiting to happen.
my children eventually became independent and wanted to sleep alone. but they are much more secure with themselves when coslept with
AAP now recommends mothers to get in a safe co sleeping position when nursing/feeding at night or while tired because it is the safest position to be in if you fall asleep.
The AAP recommendation was made because not all co-sleeper parents will take the safety steps cited by Bialik and, thus, many of these parents, in an effort to keep up with the cool parenting trends, will put their children in danger. The simple, blanket recommendation saves lives, then, ipso facto. There is no respected research that demonstrates significant benefits of constant-contact sleeping, co-sleeping, or any of this stuff that has sort-of cropped-up fairly recently. At least, there is none that demonstrates the benefits outweight the risk (absent the blanket AAP recommendation).
You're not a bad parent if your kid sleeps in his/her own bed in another room. Don't let Hollywood or people who have "read a lot" or "done their research" tell you how to raise your kid. Ask medical professionals and people who have big, fancy degrees indicating they have done rigorous, scientific analysis of and supervised research into this stuff. Those people are what we would call "qualified" and understand the overall purpose of such a recommendation coming from the AAP.
if my son wasnt in bed with me the night he stopped breathing i wouldnt have woken up to give him mouth to mouth and save him. it was because he was in the crook of my arm that i noticed him stop breathing as i slept and was able to save him. its not safe to not co sleep!
While I value Ms. Bialik's opinion (and am still a huge fan from Blossom days), as a parent and a pediatrician, I would not personally identify her as an expert in pediatrics. I would expect Simon and Schuster to do their homework as well in creating a video like this. The "APA" is not the "AAP," and even though she is referring to the American Academy of Pediatrics, poor attention to details alone puts credibility of this video into question.
I practice attachment parenting, it just feels like the right fit for me and my son. Unfortunately due to my sons fathers car accident I am currently living with my mother and she always has her negative opinion on it, especially co-sleeping. I love seeing these videos, it makes me feel like I'm not a weird mom like she makes me feel sometimes lol.
i feel encouraged now,it feels naturally right to do the things that are talked about in attachment parenting even though people tell me otherwise.
Mayim you are beautiful.
I've got six kids ranging in age from 7yrs to 7mths. It wasn't until my 2nd child was born that the phrase 'attachment parenting' was brought up to me. Before then i hadn't thought there was a "special" label for the way I raised my kids. I was simply just doing what I felt was the best thing for them in my heart and mind. I'm around my kids all day and I parent using a lot of gut intuition. If I feel something is off with one of them, we have mommy/child private time to talk about the problem.
Mayim, If you were my favourite actrees before now you also became my hero !!
So simple and perfect explanation of one of the most important topics in motherhood
Thanks to bring attention to that topic
Most people who are against co-sleeping also don't breast feed or try to end breast feeding as soon as possible. But if you love your babies and if they have asthma like mine did, is not safe. My children would get croup even though they nursed. The were better off where I could hear their breathing.
Around the world, if babies didn't sleep with their mothers, they would have a much lower survivability.