
How to Test Your Emotional Maturity
Emotional maturity is an important part of life. It is the ability to understand and manage your emotions in a healthy and productive way. It is also the ability to recognize and accept the emotions of others. Emotional maturity is essential for healthy relationships, successful careers, and overall wellbeing.
Unfortunately, many people struggle with emotional maturity. They may have difficulty managing their emotions, or they may not be able to recognize and accept the emotions of others. If you are struggling with emotional maturity, there are ways to test and improve your emotional maturity.
1. Identify Your Emotions
The first step to improving your emotional maturity is to identify your emotions. This means recognizing when you are feeling a certain emotion and being able to name it. For example, if you are feeling angry, you should be able to recognize that you are feeling angry and be able to name it.
2. Understand Your Emotions
Once you have identified your emotions, it is important to understand them. This means understanding why you are feeling a certain emotion and what is causing it. For example, if you are feeling angry, you should be able to identify the source of your anger and understand why you are feeling it.
3. Express Your Emotions
Once you have identified and understood your emotions, it is important to express them in a healthy way. This means being able to communicate your emotions in a way that is respectful and productive. It is important to be able to express your emotions without being aggressive or passive-aggressive.
4. Manage Your Emotions
Once you have identified, understood, and expressed your emotions, it is important to be able to manage them. This means being able to control your emotions and not let them control you. It is important to be able to recognize when you are feeling overwhelmed and take steps to manage your emotions in a healthy way.
5. Accept the Emotions of Others
Finally, it is important to be able to accept the emotions of others. This means being able to recognize and understand the emotions of others without judging or criticizing them. It is important to be able to accept the emotions of others without trying to change or control them.
These are the five steps to testing and improving your emotional maturity. By following these steps, you can become more emotionally mature and better able to manage your emotions and relationships.
FAQs
What is emotional maturity?
Emotional maturity is the ability to understand and manage your emotions in a healthy and productive way. It is also the ability to recognize and accept the emotions of others.
How can I test my emotional maturity?
You can test your emotional maturity by following the five steps outlined in this article: identify your emotions, understand your emotions, express your emotions, manage your emotions, and accept the emotions of others.
What are the benefits of emotional maturity?
The benefits of emotional maturity include healthier relationships, successful careers, and overall wellbeing. Emotional maturity is essential for living a happy and fulfilling life.
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Highly recommend the book "Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents"
I self learned to be strong, confident, resilient to deal with a Passive type Dad & Emotional Unstable type Mum.
Emotional immature people CAN NOT be changed by you!!!
Majority of the human population don't have high IQ & EQ, critical thinking skills, rationality, or even full self awareness/reflection, only 20% of us can achieve these. So bear that in mind when you encounter emotional immature people, it helps to make things easier to deal with them, lots & lots of them…
It's really a torture for a rational emotional mature person like me to deal with emotional immature people, in my case, my parents, whom are unlike other relationships that I could just easily cut outta my life just to make my mind at peace. I gotta deal with them for decades head on…
So you can try different ways to make attempt to get along & make peace with them, but if all effort failed over time, I'd say just walk away… simply walking away to live better for yourself. Keep it real.
You, yourself, are more important than anyone in this world.
This is my mom. She literally beat the shit out of me when I forgot to put the spoon into the dirty dishes, she took away my phone and didn't want to prepare my breakfast and lunch for school nor even driving me to my school (my school is 8 km away from my house) . Hell, sometimes she got pissed for no reason, and whenever I asked her what make her very furious she always responds with something like "use logic! what do you think you got wrong, *profanities*" I'm very tired.
I once mentally bullied at school. My close friend mock me for my behaviour and appearance and idk why. Ive been a friend with them since last year and its an horrific experience. They would constantly mock me whenever they had a chance to and when i show them my vulnerability. For the past year, i sulked, im not immune to their harsh words but i shut my mouth up. I have no ability to explain it to them. And sometimes i get furious and i think nobody really react that time. I also turned cold.
But when i start to understand my feeling,constantly thinking about what,why they do it to me, why i feel this certain way etc, i start to make up a courage to talk about it with them. But i did feels like im more furious abt them bcs i now understand and more aware that their behavior is the one that effects me and not me. I think im emotionally mature now. I learnt a lot from this.
Suddenly I feel like I don't want to be emotionally mature, that is for dumb peoples.
Anyone else does a lil salsa dance while the intro music starts
Emotional skills can be improved when one wants to come out of the sluggish mindset living with.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1BBivUpa64g
Communicate calmly and effectively, YOU ARE TAKING IT TOO SERIOUSLY.
Trust and have faith, but if ask basic question when you catch a lie, YOU NEVER TRUSTED ME!!
Be vulnerable, YOU ARE WEAK, BE STRONG!!
Wish this video had Spanish subtitles so I could show it to my parents
If school taught us about life like you guys do, everything could be a lot better nowadays!❤
I know that forgiveness is the better path to take but Idc abt forgiveness or anything like that if you hurt me I’m going to hurt you back if you give me a chance to and if you don’t then I’m cutting you off
Being vulnerable has ruined me multiple times. I will never make that mistake again.
well imagine being vulnerable to the only person that you can kind of talk to, only for them to use your insecurities against you or putting off your problems or making everything about themselves and feeling attacked. i feel like there were so many aspects missing in this video.
Now how do I inform someone that they need to work on their emotional maturity without insulting them 🤔
3 an 2 kinda me?
This video taught me that i have met no mentally mature people, including myself.
lol many kids saying they feel lonely and dont have many friends, is that so? feeling lonely means nobody deserves your time more than you, so beat it, make friends with yourself, watch yourself in the mirror daily, making yourself happy is the key of a mature person the loneliness is a journey where you're only avoiding your reflection, you dont just see yourself a monster you are believing what YOU see and not what you REALLY NEED TO SEE. this is a little advice from a guy who spends his time on things that are not worth it, but who always tries to make his own mistakes count as a lesson for their future, peace.
Oh no….after watching this video, I now realize I am nowhere near being as emotionally mature as I thought I was and……yeah….that makes me angry…….then cold and irritated……then bleh……….can't even fantasize about violence to feel better cause I'm not 13 anymore I'm 33…….sorry I'm typing for no reason on the internet again. I needa get off the toilet and go back to work lolololol🙄 also subscribed. This channel and Psych2go and that channel with the hard to pronoun "K" word are gonna help me later when I do more growing up or something…….
This animation is absolutely amazing. Made the dialogue way easier to understand, props to the animator/s!
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Helpful insights. Thank you
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i am prob a sociopath and gotta say it's cool to not have situations like that. no one can betray me if i don't trust anyone already lmao
I actually leave them . I just think if they left they weren't meant to stay so i just try to forget them even tho i cant
this dude has a "hi, my name is doctor Glenn Pierce" voice
the animation is really good, don't get me wrong, but it angers me, like, angers me a lot.
Conformity and comfort seem to be the default for insight .
I funny as a man, i can count on one hand how many men i've seen show signs of emotional maturity. meanwhile i've met countless women who are able to express, seek help and deal with their emontions in a healthy way. I'm just lucky among the men i've seen showing emotional maturity i can count my dad. second one was my first ever boss. Lucky to have these rolemodels in my life.
Both of my parents are emotionally immature. I've always known it, but this explanation is extremely validating. I was always called too sensitive for caring, while also being shown a lack of care. From a very young age, I had to console my brother, and parents when they were upset. It made me emotionally volatile, because of the weight that was constantly on my shoulders.
Unfortunately, recently I found myself regressing to a former, more emotionally immature version of myself, during a particularly disappointing moment with a family member.
Luckily my partner is extremely emotionally mature and taught me how to react better in emotionally triggering situations. He is my rock, and I am forever grateful for his presence in my life.
If you explain to a narcissist that they hurt you, they'll be elated and make sure to use that against you in the future.
emotions are so complex
How do I not be cold? I don’t lash out and I can articulate how I feel. I just don’t know how to be vulnerable
The animation in this video is absolutely beautiful
I wish I was Stoic
Shut up
I feel kind but weak, compassionate but selective. Not alot of people understand how draining it is to be emotionally mature and receptive to how others feel. I cry and feel sad so that I can experience what my body and mind are trying to tell me instead of bottling it up. No-one wants emotional me they want stoic doesn't complain doesn't feel emotion me. Being in tune with how others feel or with how they affect me is crushing and very much a state of mind that is exhausting but also rewarding.