
Montessori at Home: Positive Discipline
Montessori at home is a popular parenting style that is based on the educational philosophy of Dr. Maria Montessori. This approach to parenting focuses on providing children with a safe and nurturing environment that encourages them to explore and learn independently. Montessori at home also emphasizes positive discipline, which is a way of teaching children how to behave in a respectful and responsible manner.
Positive discipline is an important part of Montessori at home. It is based on the idea that children should be taught how to behave in a respectful and responsible manner, rather than being punished for misbehavior. Positive discipline focuses on teaching children the skills they need to make good choices and to understand the consequences of their actions. It also encourages children to take responsibility for their own behavior and to develop self-discipline.
Positive discipline is based on the idea that children should be treated with respect and kindness. Parents should use positive language when talking to their children and should avoid using harsh words or punishments. Instead, parents should focus on teaching children the skills they need to make good choices and to understand the consequences of their actions.
Parents should also provide children with clear expectations and boundaries. This helps children understand what is expected of them and gives them a sense of security. Parents should also provide children with consistent and fair consequences for their actions. This helps children learn to take responsibility for their own behavior and to develop self-discipline.
Positive discipline also involves teaching children problem-solving skills. This helps children learn how to handle difficult situations and to make good decisions. Parents should also provide children with opportunities to practice these skills in a safe and supportive environment.
Finally, positive discipline involves teaching children how to express their feelings in a healthy way. This helps children learn how to manage their emotions and to communicate their needs in a respectful manner. Parents should also provide children with opportunities to practice these skills in a safe and supportive environment.
FAQs
What is Montessori at home?
Montessori at home is a popular parenting style that is based on the educational philosophy of Dr. Maria Montessori. This approach to parenting focuses on providing children with a safe and nurturing environment that encourages them to explore and learn independently.
What is positive discipline?
Positive discipline is an important part of Montessori at home. It is based on the idea that children should be taught how to behave in a respectful and responsible manner, rather than being punished for misbehavior. Positive discipline focuses on teaching children the skills they need to make good choices and to understand the consequences of their actions.
How can I use positive discipline at home?
Parents should use positive language when talking to their children and should avoid using harsh words or punishments. Instead, parents should focus on teaching children the skills they need to make good choices and to understand the consequences of their actions. Parents should also provide children with clear expectations and boundaries, and should provide consistent and fair consequences for their actions. Finally, parents should provide children with opportunities to practice problem-solving and emotional expression skills in a safe and supportive environment.
27 months lmao
Omg how I wish my husband and I were on the same page… Routines and modeling dont work when only 1 parent is doing it
Jessica L. Karla 3 ❣
You are so extremely well spoken 💕 I am barely 3 minutes into this video & I am : emotional, excited, relieved all at once!!! I can tell this is exactly what I’ve been looking for, for my children & I’s relationship & just all over better my way of thinking & quality of my kids life ❤️ I know this comment might seem silly but this truly is almost like the answer I’ve been praying for & I can’t wait to delve into your videos more 😇🙏🏼
Offering two choices… my kid wont work with that. She just says: none of that. Getting dressed is our daily nightmare. Even giving her full freedom doesnt change a thing. She just does not want clothes. At all. Everything is itchy, tight, uncomfortable. And of course it changes daily.
Good Morning. In one of Ashley’s videos, she mentions having taken courses related to the “phases“ of child development. I may be phrasing that incorrectly but am interested in knowing what those courses were. I have a four-year-old and I’m just learning about the Montessori approach, which seems beautiful. I was not raised in a nice or healthy environment and want to provide something better for my kiddo! Any help or direction toward classes, certificates, degrees, that could help me in my pursuit would be greatly appreciated. Thank you!
At the 17:35 mark (ish) I have done the majority of these techniques when my kids were toddlers. With my 1st kid, I did over praise – which is totally biting me in the butt now. But, I didn't make that mistake with my 2nd! Phew!
My issue now that my kids are 10 & 8 and they are able to effectively communicate their emotions- their friends can't. Some of their friends are taking it as manipulation. When it is honest expression. So I need help navigating this part. My 10 year old is very smart and has trapped me (unknowingly) where I am about to make excuses for her friends. It is actually hard to be the emotionally evolved kid. If anyone can point me in a direction, I welcome it! I did all the attachment parenting when they were young and do my best to maintain it. The books I have are geared for the earlier years. Can anyone recommend a book or two for the "beginning" logic years and into the preteen & teen years? Please 🙏
Any thoughts on the book “Hunt, Gather, Parent”? It has a similar outlook it seems to me
I feel like nowadays this is the general way to raising your kids and kids have never been so disrespectful and misbehaving. Not saying that being extremely strict is good, just that we need to go back to use common sense when raising kids, to teach them what’s good and bad and make them take good habits, which means some time off or punishment from time to time.
I'm so happy to have found your channel. I have a 16-month-old toddler and discipline has already gotten challenging. Thanks for all the knowledge and the books you suggested. You've gotten a follower from Brazil 🥰
I work with school aged kids and watched this video last night and implemented some of these tips at work today, and my god it worked so well. Thank you for this video!
Um I am proof the punishment you want to do away with does work in the long term.
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God blesss! Thank you for sharing this helpful info that aligns with my values and beliefs :]
Big big thanks to you for these very helpful tips.. really.. my toddler is 19 months and is starting with tantrums like head banging etc..and I am a big supporter of positive parenting..but I have been struggling with how to handle these tantrums.. and watching this video I also realized that I am also falling in the trap of fear and punishment based parenting..thanks for the helpful tips.. 😀 😃 🙂
Love your videos. I have a question. In the section of giving your child a heads up when you are about to change activities. Would using a timer a good idea? Like telling them "ok soon we will get ready for dinner, let's put 5 minutes on our timer". Or use a timer for that one-hour tablet time you spoke of in another video?
What do you do when your toddler fights you to eat vegetables? How do I act or what do I do?
I don’t want to miss any of this videos !
I was watching this video of yours and I wanted to stop to say thank you thank you so much for all this tips. I was reading a book lately that says exactly what you mention here. I am exited and thrilled!! God bless !
Discipline: learning/teaching/knowledge
She's not 27 months, she's 2, just say she's a little over 2.
As a parent of a toddler who has young adult siblings I can see the value of teaching these techniques to the rest of the household too. Love minimizes grumpyness. I thank my wife for caring by sharing 💕
I’m a new mom of a soon-to-be 1 year old and just found your channel. So thankful for you and your content. Hoping I can be a great mom like you someday.
Will you do a video about Montessori and autism ?
wow. unlearn to relearn!!!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Can I get advice from you on how to let others know to respect this approach and that it works better than loud discipline? We're currently staying with our in laws temporarily and would love for them to be on board with this method as well.
I am hooked to your videos.
My child dumps her fruit loops on the ground. I don’t overreact, I calmly say food doesn’t belong in the floor can you pick it up. She flat out refuses to pick up and She runs away and screams. I’m new at this, any suggestions?
27 month old lol
I love this video so much! I have saved this to my favourite list so that i can refer back to it from time to time. I wish this series had subtitles in different languages so that the non-english speaking grandparents can benefit too.
Can I just say how amazing it is that the little one said 'I'm upset.' That's awesome that she feels able to just say it plainly and understands it's safe to do so.
Watched this a couple years ago when I had my little newborn, and now that he’s almost 28 months, I’m re-watching. So needed. This is such a chaotic time of brain development, and I find it so hard to stay regulated. I’m practicing my Lamaze breathing 😂 and working to learn these positive skills up against the harmful generational cycles my husband and I are struggling to break. Thank you so much for making this video and putting this information together ♥️♥️
Thks so much!!!
Are adults really out here telling people to move? 😳😬. Anyway this is great to watch and learn techniques and I don’t even have a baby yet