
How Do You Correct A Child’s Bad Behavior With Positive Parenting?
Positive parenting is a parenting style that focuses on building a strong relationship between parent and child, while also teaching the child how to behave in a socially acceptable way. It is based on the idea that children learn best when they are praised and rewarded for good behavior, rather than punished for bad behavior. Positive parenting is a great way to help children learn how to make good choices and develop healthy relationships with others.
When it comes to correcting a child’s bad behavior, positive parenting is the best approach. It is important to remember that children are still learning and developing, and that they may not always understand why their behavior is wrong. It is important to be patient and understanding when correcting a child’s behavior.
Steps for Correcting a Child’s Bad Behavior with Positive Parenting
1. Identify the behavior: The first step in correcting a child’s bad behavior is to identify the behavior. It is important to be specific and to focus on the behavior, rather than the child. For example, instead of saying “you are being bad”, it is better to say “you are not following the rules”.
2. Explain why the behavior is wrong: Once the behavior has been identified, it is important to explain why it is wrong. It is important to be clear and concise when explaining why the behavior is wrong. It is also important to be respectful and to avoid using language that is too harsh or critical.
3. Offer alternatives: Once the child understands why the behavior is wrong, it is important to offer alternatives. It is important to provide the child with options that are acceptable and that will help them learn how to make better choices.
4. Provide consequences: If the child continues to engage in the bad behavior, it is important to provide consequences. It is important to be consistent and to provide consequences that are appropriate for the behavior.
5. Praise good behavior: It is also important to praise the child when they make good choices. Praising good behavior is a great way to reinforce positive behavior and to help the child learn how to make better choices.
Tips for Positive Parenting
1. Be consistent: It is important to be consistent when it comes to parenting. It is important to set clear expectations and to follow through with consequences when necessary.
2. Be patient: It is important to be patient when it comes to parenting. It is important to remember that children are still learning and developing, and that it may take time for them to learn how to make better choices.
3. Be positive: It is important to be positive when it comes to parenting. It is important to focus on the positive aspects of the child’s behavior and to provide praise and encouragement when appropriate.
4. Set limits: It is important to set limits when it comes to parenting. It is important to provide the child with boundaries and to be consistent when enforcing them.
5. Be a role model: It is important to be a role model when it comes to parenting. It is important to set a good example for the child and to demonstrate the behavior that you want them to emulate.
FAQs
Q: What is positive parenting?
A: Positive parenting is a parenting style that focuses on building a strong relationship between parent and child, while also teaching the child how to behave in a socially acceptable way. It is based on the idea that children learn best when they are praised and rewarded for good behavior, rather than punished for bad behavior.
Q: How do I correct a child’s bad behavior with positive parenting?
A: When it comes to correcting a child’s bad behavior, it is important to be patient and understanding. It is important to identify the behavior, explain why it is wrong, offer alternatives, provide consequences, and praise good behavior.
Q: What are some tips for positive parenting?
A: Some tips for positive parenting include being consistent, being patient, being positive, setting limits, and being a role model. It is also important to provide the child with praise and encouragement when appropriate.
Can someone summarize this video for me please
Such good advice, thank you!
My children fight alot…tired and fedup
This is great
Please add subtitles 😟
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Thank you I needed this my son is having issues at school and need ways to work with him to help with his behavior
Can someone tell me where to skip to the part
Love this channel im learning
Thank you for all the information. I take notes on all your videos 🌸🌸🌸
How do you deal with a tanager child that love play more than doing choice in the home
I came here because my 6 year old gets easily frustrated and angry super fast when things don’t go his way or his brothers doesn’t do what he wants him to do. He screams at the top of his lungs and I don’t know 🤷🏻♀️ how to help him to stop doing that. I’ve tried talking to him and redirecting but not having any success. Feel so hopeless 😔
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Great advice! I like Brene Brown too! Thank you for sharing!
I like think not fight
I have a 5 year old granddaughter who has melt downs. Something dosent go her way or she thinks someone did something mean she will cry and cry. She won't talk to anyone and if you approach her she turns away! She talks about how we don't know the real her. She can't be the real her. Today I redid a fort for them so blanket wouldn't fall down. And that was the worse. I am mean grandma. She sat and cried and talked to herself for over a hour. I tried to get her to talk about how we can be calmer when someone makes her upset. Nope won't
It seems I tried everything and my daughter walks all over me
– instead of say no, find ways to redirect activity or behaviour. eg. naughty toddler does something instead of saying "stop!" simply say "hey how bout we do this instead" … eventually get to a 'yes' or 'yes when' which is more positive than saying 'no' which is more negative, when we say no less it will increase its value when we do say it.
– don't correct them in public- take care of correction in private way. approach in positive language. keep it on the upside.
I say. ahahah it’s really a sound They just stop. It works great I go get them Give them something new to do
My hubby and I are taking PCIT training and it has been so effective on one of my very challenging kids!!!
What a load of crap… "Don't say no just say yes!"
Well that's great, but how do you correct a child that is being disrespectful or even threatening?
I did over dinner from tiny. all the way to today at 24. "what was your best and worst of the day" as a way to get my son who has autism to talk about his day….this helps to reduce his anxiety and I get to know what's happening in his world…ps. also promotes gratitude and something positive in this crazy world we are living in today.
Postive behavior is being polite. Good managers, treat people with respect. Wait your turn.
Bad behavior is unhealthy behavior patterns and being disrespectful bad mangers bad language is rude behavior unhealthy. crizized accusing blaming is not nice behavior at all it rude mean.
The bad behavior. If parents or person say stop no don't Do do that their consequences to their actions behavior
cause pushinment time out why because the child did something wrong or they not allow to go outside play because they did something wrong.
Can you please make aa video on how to get back normal behaviour of a three years old toddler,
I had been so harsh and loud to him now I feel he relactent to share and talk to me.
He starts shouting, crying, throwing things when he get angry or does not get what he want.
I get fadeup when he shouts and don't listen even a single word and don't want to calm down even on giving alternate.
Please share a link or make a video on it.
I would be thankful.
I'm not positive in my own life. So this is a huge challenge for me. 😞
Thanks very much. I have 3 boys in different ages, and too hard for me.
I could do this most of the time except during first 2 days before my period. How do I handle this? I got frustrated with bad behavior from my 3yo, mostly towards his little sister 19mo (hitting her for simply grab his toys or getting on the way when he’s doing something), then i warned him calmly for 5 times but still no listening. Till I scream or I said no then send him to time out. I tried to apply western parenting (my husband is American) but i feel like it didn’t work. And I have no place to run to take a break as we didn’t live any of my country or hubby. We don’t have family around for years already, barely could make friends
How you deal with two kids with behavioral issues and discipline them ? Stop them for throw fits and say lies about being abused
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The behavior that gets attention is the behavior that gets reinforced..
Positive phrasing is sooooo effective…
Soo many great points here!!! Love
All behavior is communication…
Children are seeking connection not attention…
I have such a hard time with people "redirecting" toddlers/kids with certain behaviors. The behavior is never addressed if you're just redirecting. My kid kept getting hit HARD by the same kid and the parents didn't want time out or any focus on the negative behavior, just redirection. Then guess what happened? It never changed, the behavior wasn't discussed. My kid crying and not wanting to play with him wasn't enough, and redirection wasn't enough. I feel like even though they're young, we should still have a discussion about the behavior and maybe a time in, especially when someone is getting hurt or in danger.
I am trying to learn to parent slowly with my partners seven year old this is the hardest thing I have ever done
You know that a person is around you and you say I need some space