Parenting Styles and Their Effects on Life
Parenting styles are the way parents interact with their children and the way they respond to their children’s behavior. Different parenting styles have different effects on a child’s life, and it is important for parents to be aware of the different styles and their effects. This article will discuss five different parenting styles and their effects on life.
Authoritarian Parenting
Authoritarian parenting is a style of parenting in which the parent is very strict and demanding. The parent sets rules and expectations for the child and expects them to be followed without question. This style of parenting can have a negative effect on a child’s life, as it can lead to feelings of resentment and rebellion. Children who are raised with authoritarian parenting may struggle to make decisions on their own and may have difficulty expressing their feelings.
Permissive Parenting
Permissive parenting is a style of parenting in which the parent is very lenient and allows the child to make their own decisions. This style of parenting can have a positive effect on a child’s life, as it allows them to develop independence and self-confidence. However, it can also have a negative effect, as the child may not learn how to make responsible decisions or how to handle difficult situations.
Uninvolved Parenting
Uninvolved parenting is a style of parenting in which the parent is not involved in the child’s life. This style of parenting can have a negative effect on a child’s life, as the child may feel neglected and may struggle to develop a sense of self-worth.
Authoritative Parenting
Authoritative parenting is a style of parenting in which the parent is both demanding and responsive. The parent sets rules and expectations for the child, but is also willing to listen to the child’s opinions and feelings. This style of parenting can have a positive effect on a child’s life, as it allows the child to develop independence and self-confidence while still feeling supported and loved.
Helicopter Parenting
Helicopter parenting is a style of parenting in which the parent is overly involved in the child’s life. This style of parenting can have a negative effect on a child’s life, as the child may feel smothered and may struggle to develop independence and self-confidence.
FAQs
What is the difference between authoritarian and authoritative parenting?
The main difference between authoritarian and authoritative parenting is that authoritarian parenting is very strict and demanding, while authoritative parenting is both demanding and responsive.
What are the effects of uninvolved parenting?
The effects of uninvolved parenting can include feelings of neglect, difficulty developing a sense of self-worth, and difficulty making decisions.
What are the benefits of authoritative parenting?
The benefits of authoritative parenting can include the development of independence and self-confidence, as well as the feeling of being supported and loved.
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My husband and I are somewhere in between authoritative and over-involved. But we are trying to give our son more independence as he’s now 11 (and also on the autism spectrum).
My parents were neglectful. Actually, my dad was absent. Husband’s parents were permissive (mom) and authoritarian (dad).
So we have all the bases covered. Lol
The answer is be fluid, you can't just apply a single style to solve everything. A punishment should match the crime, have some strict rules, some leniant rules, help kids get what they want through learning, don't belittle them, dont overly protect.
The fact that most of the viewers are not parents:)
tfw i was younger my dad was very neglectful but my mom was very loving but now i barely get to see my mom because she’s busy and now i have to live with my dad who pretends to care for what i think: 😀
I love to use this video in sessions, but man! Some of the artwork is seriously cringe. Specifically, using an Asian family to represent authoritarian and a hippie family to represent permissive is playing on some serious racial and cultural stereotypes. I wish this had been taken into consideration.
My son is raised with an authoritative parenting style, I was raised by an over-involved parent. I am so grateful for my mother, she protected me from so much trauma growing up and did what she could. I would give anything to have her back with me, however, now that I have my own child I do see how removing every obstacle for your child or assuming your child can't do anything on their own can be EXTREMELY restrictive. We were limiting our son out of our own fear, now that he goes to daycare at 5 years old (besides preschool he was with us all of the time, for the first 4 years of his life) he gets to show how sociable, kind, and ingenious he is. We already saw those qualities but we're adults.. it's nice to see him thrive around his peers. He's only been going to daycare for 4 days and has shown us how talkative he is! (autistic, non-verbal) I am so happy we let him explore his little world in a safe and structured environment! I'm happy we caught our over-involved tendencies sooner than later, and although we don't regret it as he couldn't speak or express himself due to ASD, I'm proud of us for knowing when loosen the reins.
My parents are divorced and live in seperate houses. My mom is a Authoritarian parent, and my dad is a permissive parent. Polar opposites
I have over involved parents
Its good to know theory but Reality is multi-dimensional and more complex ,, so parenting style also get influence due to multiple factors like it can be combination of these 5 style 🕵️ and what kind of norms and experiences , socialization environment the child get will decide its behaviour pattern 🧐where family is one of the prominent factor to influence child . In which family type and member in family and parents POV (it can be different in one case dominating one will order or in other cooperative approch of both one or different or so on….)
I'm a teenager with a neglectful father and an over-involved mother.
My father – he pretty much isn't present in any decisions I make,he just isn't there,so I completely ignore him,like he doesn't exist. We're pretty cold to each other. All he does is to judge my decision making,make assumptions about me and eventually laugh about my ideals and decision,like his are superior to mine. Or he just doesn't bother to think about me at all.
My mother – she hates that I'm planning things ahead by myself. After all, it's my life with my future decisions,but she wants so bad to be a part of them. She doesn't trust my decision making and she's afraid of it and what will happen.
Whenever I try to open up to them (which is pointless) it seem like I'm talking to a wall.
my parents lecture me for stupid reasons
Very interesting, my parents were separated and took on various parenting styles based on what was goin on in their lives… I think the co-parenting dynamic adds an interesting twist.
I had an neglectful/authoritarian dad and an authoritive/permissive mother, they both screwed me up, so the way I see it, all styles can fail, the important thing is that you know and respect your child, otherwise all control is tyranny and all freedom is neglect. I view both parents as pathetic, if they earnt my respect and respected my values maybe I'd respect them, but I don't, didn't listen to them at all growing up and who I am is a reaction to them as an adult.
I guess Societies that raise kids with aid of shame as a tool, also make them most conscious about opinion of others as adults
I feel like a grid was a good example but I feel like a pentagon is a better way to visualize with points showing how involved or cold or over involved the parents are
Mine physically beat me for every mistake I made and was never around physically and expected me to learn on my own or I was taught to fear my parents. "If you don't do this, you will become sick." Etc.
Never help a child that he feels he can do by himself. (Montessori )
Raise yourself before raising your child.
https://www.youtube.com/@Purposeful_Parenting
As an Asian My parents were authoritative up until the age of 16 after which they slowly started treating me like an adult and even sharing their own feelings and problems with us. So now, even though I still respect them as my parents but I also know that i need to take my own decisions and that the relation we share now is more like friends
Authoritative looked asian
Permissive looked white
The third one looked black
The fourth looked indian.
The fith animation looked white or ambiguous.
My daughter is almost 2 years old and I just want to do the best for her. Rules are important but so is expressing your feelings, toddlers are still learning how to control themselves and learning how society works, I'm still learning how to be a really good parent and I'll never stop learning cos the challenges will always change as she grows. I'm leaning towards Montessori style parenting, where you allow the kids to be themselves within a certain limit but also my daughter could not respond to this, I'll have to pay attention to her and see what works.
My parents raised me well I am so thankful for them ❤ I’m recently in uncle (hence this account) and I’m trying to replicate the behaviours I feel are valuable onto my baby nephew ❤
The fact my dads has an authoritarian and neglectful parenting style while my mom has a authoritative parenting style shows how different they are being a person while my mom cares about our emotional well being my dad doesn't and he just neglects us whenever my mom isnt watching while my mom does the opposite
I wonder if there is a study about these 5 parenting styles and their effects on the lives of children with autism.
What if I don't have both the parents ! ?
So in short, the kids are:
1. Mai
2. Azula
3. Tylee
4. Zuko
What about two different types of parents that constantly conflict with each other because I definitely had two different ones
2:49–2:50
i had a mix between the authoritarian and the authoritative parents. i was always pressured to be “the best”
Interesting. I'm a father who raises a daughter, and it was time to check what kind of parenting style I had. Thank you for the great video.
Can also be titled 1,001 ways to eff up your child unintentionally
Excellent work, as always !
Gentle parenting, not mentioned, it’s a great approach
People who had authoritarian parents always ended up under authoritative friends, superiors and toxic relationships.
I think you are wrong, those style of parenting are all wrong, the one you presented, is just right for a highly industrialised country service oriented, the behaviour which result from this fits perfectly with the dream salary he wants, that's all, there is more parenting style, and they just have to fit to an environment and the kids will be happy.
None of the above – check the Bible for the best way to train up a child – not to seek man's approval but obey God's commandments – takes the pressure off of the parents once the child can internalize that God loves him or her – sorry – but you need to be corrected here
I kinda love the racism in this asian authoritarian parenting and hippie dippie free love white people style oh and neglected white people style. Buddy why not add a cracker and a rice cooker somewhere
Yo why the asian Family Totalitarian Like why you No a why b
There are a 6. Style. Parents that does drugs and keep their children in freez fight fligh respones
All Rules Or NO interest is the worst the others can be managed
The "results" section of the authoritative parenting style made me physically laugh out loud. It makes it seem like so easy, just follow these 4 steps and you'll have a golden child, well anyone with a kid knows that's not how it works at all.
Is better to have a daily loving family than a lonely child surrounded by luxuries where the child can be influenced into criminal ways due to lack of parental guidance. What’s the point of earning a fortune to be spent away frivolously by your criminal children?
Ancient approach to parenting
Lots of cool drawings but nothing really interesting in the content that was not enough deep to me
I think in my case it was mother overinvolved and father neglectful
So basically, irreparable damage is done no matter what. Got it.
I'm 100% an authoritative parent. Basically described me perfectly
Lets pretend that this isnt the most important issue in the world, and just do whatever, No education needed
As a parent I can’t side myself on either ends. My parenting style is always explain everything, my motto I say to him every time “actions lead to consequences”. If he cries because he’s upset – I’m all supportive and calming him down. If he cries because he don’t want to do his homework – I’m strict and explain how doing homework is the gym for your brain and if you’re against it – you’re being against of yourself becoming better, while playing games is fun, you’re contributing into your failing and hardship further along the road. My main key is to explain in every little detail, how his homework that is being done today is contributing into his future and vice versa. When he becomes lazy I let him and just say “action leads to consequences”. I never refuse him anything without proper explanation why in most accessible and simple terms.
My main goal is to ignite his self education and pursuit of becoming better in anything valuable. I support every his initiatives on curiosity. Never lie to him, if I give my word always make sure it’s done.
One thing I can say for sure it’s a great and hard work everyday. I had to explain same thing a 100 times and being consistent with that is most difficult part. I never speak from authority, but only from logical explanations.
Outcomes at his current 7yo:
– still hates homework, but not happy when he does it sloppy, so he tries to make it better
– learned to do his homework by himself with appropriate quality
– still sometimes try to cut some corners. And I happy for that, cutting corners involves smartness of whether what could be done quickly and what should be done with careful consideration
– switched from playing Roblox to creating levels for it and asked to get him special classes for programming, which he attends now
– learned English at freely speaking/writing level. Besides knowing Kazakh(we’re from KZ), Kazakh and Russian
– despises TikTok and can distinguish useful content from stupid