4 Things You MUST SAY To Your Kids DAILY | Positive Parenting
As a parent, it is important to ensure that your children are receiving the love and support they need to grow into healthy, happy adults. One of the best ways to do this is to make sure that you are saying the right things to your kids every day. Here are four things you should be saying to your kids daily to help them develop a positive outlook on life and to foster a strong relationship between you and your children.
1. “I Love You”
The most important thing you can say to your kids is “I love you.” This simple phrase can go a long way in showing your children that you care about them and that you are always there for them. It is important to make sure that your kids know that you love them unconditionally and that you will always be there for them no matter what.
2. “I Believe in You”
Another important thing to say to your kids is “I believe in you.” This phrase can help your children feel more confident and secure in themselves. It can also help them to feel more motivated to reach their goals and to strive for success.
3. “I’m Proud of You”
It is also important to tell your kids that you are proud of them. This can help them to feel more appreciated and valued. It can also help them to feel more confident in their abilities and to strive for success.
4. “I’m Here for You”
Finally, it is important to tell your kids that you are always there for them. This can help them to feel more secure and to know that they can always come to you for help and support. It can also help them to feel more connected to you and to know that you are always there for them.
These four phrases are essential for positive parenting and for fostering a strong relationship between you and your children. Make sure to say these things to your kids every day to show them that you love them and that you are always there for them.
FAQs
Q: What are the four things I should say to my kids daily?
A: The four things you should say to your kids daily are “I love you,” “I believe in you,” “I’m proud of you,” and “I’m here for you.”
Q: Why is it important to say these things to my kids?
A: It is important to say these things to your kids because it can help them to feel more secure, confident, and connected to you. It can also help them to develop a positive outlook on life and to strive for success.
Q: How often should I say these things to my kids?
A: You should try to say these things to your kids every day to ensure that they are receiving the love and support they need.
Great advice Doc👍Thank you !
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Raise them that they are saved by the Lord Jesus Christ first before they die.
The tips and advice you give are solid… But more than that I really resonate with your presentation style. Thank you so much for helping me better be a better parent and partner.🙏🏻
Those videos are pure gold. Thanks so much Dr. Paul, I started to apply your precious advices, and I can tell things are already getting better.
Lololol, not my parents they call us stupid, wrong ,full of sh*t about life decisions and demeaning, than will act like nothing happened a week or 2 later, but alas 1 parent is gone and the other still around still does and says the same old cr*p, well accept to there drug addict kid whom they go all there way out for.
What do you do if you have made so many parenting mistakes that your child has no confidence and very indecisive?
Thank you!!
Why “I love you jo matter what… even if” is so important??
"you don't give them enough freedom, ask your kids". Erh noooo… I'm the adult around and it's not up to the kid to know how "free" he can be. If I listened to my 3 years old kid, I'd let him walk around a swim pool without any surveillance.
That's a very bad advice, I see more and more that "ask your kid" theory, which also lead to "if your boy says he's a girl, dress him as one". No, kids don't know what's good for them.
Ooops handle it made me positive
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Amazing advises !
All great advice! Thank you Dr. Paul! I believe #4 and #3 are related….the more mature you are, the more capable you are of handling a situation….obviously a child needs to learn safety, boundaries before telling them they can handle a situation (eg. Learning to swim in the deep end of the pool, learning not to run into the street, learning not to go with a stranger, etc.)….we must Prepare them first to handle challenging situations. Thanks for all the great content!
OK ii do say most of those everyday #1 I say several times a day. Maybe I'm not the worst mom in the world.
Yesterday I told my son to make his bed before his grandma picked him up for the weekend he asked if she was otw I said that she was then he said , kinda under his breath, "good luck"….
I tell my kid that I love him and God loves him.
But what happens when my teen twins become complete jerks, ignoring their chores, blowing off schooling (they're home-schooled) & I just can't love them anymore? If I start saying these 4 things out of the blue, my kids will think I'm lying. Truth be told, my mom over-protected me when I was growing up, which told me that I couldn't handle this rotten world. And she was right. This world is definitely rotten, & I completely can't handle my family at all & want out. Every night I hope to die in my sleep. And every morning I wake up disappointed.
I don’t even have kids but I’m glued to this channel! Every one of these can serve as a powerful mantra for ourselves. Also, I’m an aunt to 3 young girls and these videos are so helpful! 🙏❤️
Thank you so much, Doctor 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Hi Paul , I don’t know if you can do a video about how to prepare our children for bullies. I have a 4 year old and his 6 year old cousin is sometimes mean to him. Kind of pushes him to the side and talks mean to him. My 4 year old is too kind sometimes and doesn’t do anything but I wouldn’t want him to be walked over.